When you’ve reached a milestone in life as a result of hard work and dedication, your sustained sense of joy and accomplishment should never depend upon the “praises” of others. Relying on the affirmation of others concerning the results of your own hard work, may result in total disappointment. Not everyone smiling with you wants the best for you. Believe in yourself and be your biggest fan even if it means, in essence, that you’re your only fan.