‘Jealousy Stagnates’

Hi, Everyone. I’ve been so busy lately promoting my new book that I didn’t get a chance to blog about a topic that has been on my mind now for a little while. I’ve titled this blog: ‘Jealousy Stagnates’ for a very important reason that I’m about to lay out here right now.

Have you ever had a friend whom you always compliment even for the slightest thing like a new hair-do / hair cut or for even bigger things like a promotion on the job or some other type of success, yet for some reason when there’s something new about you / something worthy of a compliment, that friend is utterly quiet? Got any ‘friends’ like that? How does it feel to be the only one complimenting all the time as if you’re on a one-way street? I guess you’ve thought about it, but don’t really vocalize it- particularly to your friend.

The thing is… I realize that some people came from backgrounds where no one ever or rarely ever complimented them for anything they did that was noteworthy – whether in the smaller sense or the larger sense of the word – and so as they grow and mature, they don’t know how to express compliments to others even though they are now being complimented by others. They feel awkward expressing such kindness and therefore, they don’t put in the effort to break out of the box, so to speak. I’ve met some really good people that are like that: They really have that issue because they came from some unimaginably tough backgrounds and thus, being ‘nice’ like that is something they have to work on. Okay, with that out of the way, let’s get on to the crux of the matter (thusly, the title).

Many other people in this world today simply hate to see even the ones they claim to love, get ahead. That’s the fact of the matter. If they’re not doing something that’s positive and worthy of respect or accolades themselves, they don’t believe anyone else should receive any type of accolades or recognition (not that accolades is something you should be looking for). In other words, some people just have such contaminated hearts that they can’t see themselves happy for anyone. Those type of people are rightly in the ‘stagnated’ category… and they’ve put themselves there unknowingly. See, when a person is envious of another person, they find themselves not achieving those things that they greatly desire. It’s not that they don’t have the ability to achieve those things; it’s just that they’ve planted seeds of envy that have taken root and sprouted in their lives, and they find themselves stagnated seemingly like ‘forever’ from getting to the point where they really would like to be.

What’s the remedy?: Learn how to be happy for others. I have a whole chapter in ‘Seeing Beyond The Natural’ book that speaks about that. I knew it needed to be there. If people learn how to do that and actually work at it, they will find themselves moving forward in the direction they were ‘pre-destined’ to go. There’s no way they can miss their destiny. However, if they allow jealousy to consume them (some to the point where they can’t even pay a person a simple compliment) they will find themselves stagnated – most likely – permanently. What a sad, miserable way to exist.

Let’s rise above that negativity and be the best that we can be for ourselves and each other by having the right type of heart and mind-set as we continue our journey in this world.

Have a great day and all the best to you.


“No Good Deed Goes Unpunished”

There’s a saying that “no good deed goes unpunished”. Sometimes, it may feel like this is completely true as nowadays, people seem not to be able to relate to the word ‘gratitude’. There are some individuals whom you have helped along the way, yet no matter what you do for them, it seems never to be enough in their eyes. I believe that some people are just so void of gratitude that no matter what someone does for them, they can easily turn and say that that person has done absolutely nothing for them. This is certainly not looked upon by God as being acceptable. Remember the account of Jesus healing the ten lepers as recorded in Luke 17:11-19? Only one returned to thank Him, after which Jesus asked: “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?” The correct and proper thing for each of them to do was to express gratitude to the Person who had just helped them. Unfortunately, many people today (and obviously back then too) seem to possess the mentality that they are “entitled” to everything that is given to them. This is so sad because the truth of the matter is that none of us are well deserving of anything because without the grace and mercy of God, our Creator, all of us would be doomed. 

For many awesome blessings to follow us and track us down, having a heart of gratitude is a definite pre-requisite. Everyone can employ their sense of gratitude. No matter how difficult the circumstance may be in your life, there is always something you can find to be thankful for, and as bad as things may appear to be at times, they could always be worse.  Looking at life from that perspective is a means to keep us all on track.

Nevertheless, continue to do good and don’t be weary of it. Every good deed is rewarded. God is always watching. When done with the right motives, your good deeds become seeds that will reap a great harvest for you in your future. Save yourself some heartache and do not expect gratitude from those you help. Instead, be happy with the good you have done and know that your reward will definitely come from above.

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